Friday, September 27, 2019

Our Singapore Bucket List


Of course, Robby, being the social butterfly he is, emailed the faculty listserve called Nanyang Connect to find friends.  During our first week here, he wrote a few emails that basically professed, "We need friends!  Anyone?" and "My wife & kids need friends! Anyone?" and "Any running or basketball groups at NTU?"  He has been maintaining a few friendly email exchanges with other faculty members with children.  One nice kid came over to play video games with Atticus & Thelo, & the kids had a blast.  Tonight one family (with three kids, the eldest between A&T's age) came over for dinner, & they added to our bucket list (the last 6).  They had a ball talking about Zelda: Breath of the Wild.

So far, we've completed 5 activities on our bucket list.  The majority is geared towards children, so Atticus, Thelo, & I will try to visit at least one new place a week during homeschooling hours.  Some are more expensive than others (Universal Studios & Kidzania), so we'll save those for special occasions.  It's strange, there are so much kid-centered places in Singapore, yet Singaporeans don't seem to particularly like children & the birthrate here is extremely low (1.2 births per woman).

Oh, the Jurong West & Jurong West Swimming Complexes are public swimming pools that are cheap & set up like waterparks (slides & all).  We're excited to go. We'll let you know how it goes!
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From Happy Fish Swim School

Jurong Bird Park

Today, we spent 4 hours at the Jurong Bird Park. It's one of the 4 zoos here (Singapore Zoo, Jurong Bird Park, Night Safari, & River Safari).

We visited the Singapore Zoo a few weeks ago & couldn't see it all in one day.  The unrelenting, suffocating heat doesn't allow for all-day outdoor trips, so we always leave places with the intention to return. It also helps to have a membership that gets us into all 4 zoos (Thanks, Yi Ga Jie).

The entrance of the Bird Park is gorgeous. 
There are overhanging plants & orchids planted above them.
The Jurong Bird Park is amazing!  Our travel time was only 25 mins, & once we entered, we ran straight for the King of the Skies show in the Hawk Arena.  The host presented a few owls, a handful of kites (our favorite), & a bunch of Southeast Asian & African vultures.  The birds flew on & off stage on their own & were constantly being fed treats when they performed a trick, like catching food midair or demonstrating vertical flight.  Afterwards, we ran out for the penguin feeding.  We missed it by a few minutes but discovered that we could pay SGD$2 to feed them.  Atticus & Thelo donned some rubber gloves, received a plate of 5 fish, & reached over the fence to feed the eager birds.  I was reminded of the penguin-feeding session at the San Francisco Zoo, which we've been to a number of times.  The method is quite different: one zookeeper will feed each penguin by hand while the other wields a clipboard & documents which penguins get fed.  Here, at the Jurong Bird Park, I couldn't tell if the zookeepers kept track of that.  Also, I noticed that the park kept multiple kinds of penguin species in the same enclosure.  Our favorite was the rockhopper penguin.  In the indoor enclosure, we found one staring at its reflection in the mirror, & when it eventually walked away, it waddled with its wings outstretched & its back hunched, taking small steps like a little old man.  Feeding the penguins was a wonderful experience that the kids will always remember.  We'd never been so close to penguins before, & they're adorable.

After the penguins, we watched the High Flyers show, which consisted of a presentation of tropical birds: toucans, parrots, giant cockatoos, & macaws.  One parrot, Amigo, counted to ten in English & Mandarin, sang a Singaporean children's song, an Indonesian children's song, & happy birthday.  Two parrots competed in a race to place small balls in the trunk of a tree.  The macaws, Mr. & Mrs. Axel, flew into a small bird box & shut the door.

After this show, we wandered toward the Lory Loft Cafe for lunch.  The kids and I discussed the conflicting beliefs behind the justification of zoos: Are zoos meant provide entertainment for people?  Are they meant to protect wildlife and let them be?  We talked about the ways we domesticate animals for entertainment (The trained parrots seemed no different than a trained dog). Atticus believed that zoos are meant to protect endangered animals & that we ought to leave them alone (albeit caged).  Thelo pointed out that people enjoy watching animals perform.  Why not provide that if it'll bring people to the zoo?  I pointed the conundrum that zoos that wanted more patrons would probably be more inclined to put on these kinds of shows.  All I know is that we'd never see these kinds of shows at the San Diego or San Francisco Zoo.  But then, I realized that this place was a Bird Park, not zoo. 

I read recently about the persistent tiger abuse occurring in Thailand.  It's a shame that tiger parts are still being illegally sold, that they perform by jumping through hoops of fire, & that patrons can pay to pose with a tiger or hold a tiger cub.

On to cuteness: we found the Lory Loft Cafe, in which Atticus & Thelo refused to eat the exorbitantly priced ham & cheese sandwich because the deli ham & cheese were weird.  I reminded them at American food in Singapore will rarely taste the same as American food in America.  Atticus nibbled on a piece of ham for 15 mins so that he could eat mango ice cream.  He also tried hiding it, but Atticus has never been overtly deceptive. He'd hide it, smile shyly, & point to napkin under which he hid the ham.  I felt for him though; the ham did have a strange texture.

The Lory Loft was a set of suspension bridges built through a grove of trees.  People could feed the lories from cups of nectar, so the birds would fly right onto the railing and reach for food.  There were little trays of water hung from the railings too, so that birds could bathe within one's reach.  It was pretty awesome.  There were also lorikeets & Western Crowned pigeons.  We loved that aviary.

Soon after, we discovered that Thelo left his backpack somewhere (Oh, our forgetful Thelo!), so we headed back to the entrance to retrieve it from the membership services office.  The woman there wanted minute detail about the backpack - apparently, telling her it was rainbow colored with a notebook & water bottle inside wasn't enough.  She wanted to know if there were keychains on it.  Thelo didn't remember, so he said no.  I exasperatedly asked if there were other rainbow-colored backpacks behind her desk. She explained that other children lost their backpacks, & she needed to be sure it was his.  "Are they all rainbow colored?!" I asked.  Okay, maybe I was too impatient, but sometimes the rule following here seems so unreasonable! Well, after I gave her a detailed description, we got it back & were too tired to return to the park, so we headed home, after 4 satisfying hours at the bird park.






Thursday, September 26, 2019

Home Schooling Update

I know, I know: I'm a teacher. I teach future teachers. I should know about teaching.  But, homeschooling has been a great challenge for me.  I've had to manage my expectations by figuring out what Atticus & Thelo are capable of, how much stamina they have for work (writing, in particular), & how to get them excited about subjects they usually avoid (writing, for example).  So, after much complain about the amount of writing during the first week, we categorized work by Core, Elective, & Choice.  Our methods for determining which tasks fell into which categories are pretty dubious, but we've been flexible about tailoring the work to the kids' needs.

Another challenge is my inability to teach science & geography, science especially.  I am completely flummoxed about teaching science.  I'm still looking for some help on the Internet.

We're still figuring out how to categorize these tasks.

This is ideal, but we usually start closer to 9 & the kids get wiped out by 3. 
We did discover that the shorter the breaks, the earlier we end, & the longer the breaks, the longer we school.


Atticus's animal report on the cockroach.

Thelo's animal report on the cheetah.  Drawing the dots took longer than everything else.

Wednesday, September 25, 2019

My Day Off

Today, Robby homeschooled Atticus & Thelo and give me the day off.  What to do on my own?  There are lots of places for kids to visit, but for a solitary grown up?  The mall!  There are so many malls in Singapore, & I haven't found much anything else to do for fun.  Downtown is over an hour away by public transit, so I opted to stick close to home & forgo a museum visit.

I went to JEM & Westgate, two malls in Jurong East that are connected to yet another mall called IMM.  Not only that, but they're also connected to a hospital (I walked into it by accident when I wandered through an overpass).  There's not much to share about shopping, except that it was pretty cool to wander from mall to mall without setting foot on the ground.  They were interconnected by overhead walkways with a subway station connected to Westgate.  Some indoor spaces were covered from above but still outdoors, so it odd to see & hear it pouring outside just beyond the railing. 

Anyway, the most interesting thing that I saw was the Baby Spa. I walked by a few aquarium-looking tanks lined up along the window, and when I looked down at one, I saw a baby's head peering up at me with an inflatable life preserver around his neck.  Yup, Baby Spa.  Infants get their own personal pool to flail in.
This is a one-month-old infant.
The employees at Baby Spa explained that because fetuses float so long in the uterus, the infants feel very comfortable in water.  Plus, they get a lot of exercise in the limbs.  

My 16-year-old niece, who, frankly, knows a lot more about the world than I do, said that this kind of baby spa is a "worldwide phenomenon," popular also in some European countries.  Although it's a bit discomforting to see a baby held up in the water by a floatation device around his neck, he seemed to be happy kicking his arms & legs around.

Sidenote: 
When I got home, I discovered that Robby had taught the kids geometry!  They noticed patterns as they were filling out a times table, and this led Robby to teach them about the area of a square, rectangle, triangle, & circle.  He really enjoyed spending the day with them, & we both discovered that we need to teach them mini-lessons because they don't get enough fulfillment through practice & Kahn Academy.  Don't ask me why it has taken us two weeks to figure it out, but I'm glad we did.  Thank goodness Robby led school today because I'm the kind of person to stick to one strategy, hell or high water.

Monday, September 23, 2019

The Cockroach Battles

This morning, I found a grown cockroach outside of our trash chute.  I didn't see the body first but its long antennae flicking around.  Adult cockroaches here are about 1.5 inches long.  Thelo argues that they're 2 inches long, but we haven't the guts yet to actually measure them. The first thing I did was message Robby through Whats App & implore him to come home to kill it.  His method: smooshing it with a small plastic bag around his basketball shoe.  No response.  So I checked the Internets to see what might kill it.  Vinegar won't work.  Neither will soapy water, though some people on the Internets claim it works.  Our easy roach killer: boiling water!  Atticus volunteered then backed out, so I had to do it.  He stood next to me for moral support.  As I poured a bit of water on it, it fell off the wall, landed on its back, twitched, then died. I left it there for the rest of the day, proud to have killed it but afraid to toss it in the trash.  Actually, I am such a wimpy wimp that I checked on it twice to make sure it was still dead.

It looks small, but it's actually large!

Strange, as a child, I was rarely fazed by squashing a spider or silverfish with a tissue.  I saw my parents do it all the time. (Remember watching silverfish squirrel around inside light fixtures?) But as an adult, I get a little queasy when I have to do it.

Onward to the cockroaches!  We will battle them all! (& leave the kitchen light on all night)

Friday, September 20, 2019

Seven year later...We're in Singapore (temporarily)!

I haven't visited this site since Thelo was born!  He is now nearly 7 and a joyful second grader.  Atticus is 9.

Since I've last written this blog, two more were born: Fibonacci Jahn & Pascal Lakshmi Loh-Ratan.  Both were named after mathematicians.  We were inspired by an email from my sister Angela in 2016 in which she shared that her kid Mei Mei was learning about the Fibonacci sequence & enjoyed watching a youtube video about it. Robby & I loved the video so much & were so fascinated by the Fibonacci sequence that we returned to the name when the twins were born.  "Pascal" felt too cute to pass by and a perfect pairing with Fibonacci, so we stuck with both.  We hadn't learned the twins' sex until they were born, though because they were identical, we knew that we'd get either two girls or two boys.  If they had been girls, one of them would have been named Fibo (Yup, that's how committed to the name we were!).  Anyway, loh & behold, two more boys were born & now we have four... We call the twins Fibo or Bobo & Pazzy.
Fibo
Pascal
Fast forward 20 months... Robby had been dreaming about sabbatical since graduate school, & his time had come, so he cast a wide net & landed on Singapore.  We left our home in Michigan on August 1st, stayed in California for 2 weeks, in which Robby did some work with Nissan in Palo Alto & borrowed a motorcycle (glorious for him). We saw family & stayed a bit with my parents in their new digs in Walnut Creek.  In mid-August, we took the 16-hour flight to Bangkok (layover in Singapore) & met up with Angela & her family, who had already been there for a few weeks.  Bangkok was a busy, trafficky mess, but Chiang Mai was a dream.  We also visited Phrae, 3 hours from Chiang Mai & almost completely lacking tourists.

Phrae is known for being near villages that sell indigo-dyed clothing.

Anyway, I LOVED Thailand - couldn't get enough of it & can't wait to return.  

Now, we've been in Singapore for 3 weeks.  Twins are 23 months old & just finishing up their first week of preschool at Learning Vision on Nanyang Technological University campus. Atticus & Thelo have completed 2 weeks of homeschooling.  Pics of our humble abode of the next 6 months are below:
Living room
The twins finally have a size-appropriate table.

Dining area with two bedrooms to the left.
Front door

Kitchen
A&T's work space
Our two bedroom/two bathroom apartment at NTU is furnished with not only furniture but with appliances & kitchenware. There's even a rice cooker, pots, pans, towels, utensils, & sheets! So it was a relief to discover that we didn't have to buy much.  You can see that it's plain but spacious, & we're fortunate to be close to the athletic fields & preschool.

Our biggest problem right now are COCKROACHES. Ugh! They have been entering the kitchen through the back patio area (where the washing machine & drying rack are located), which is enclosed. But there's a trash chute, & we think they're crawling out of the trash chute & looking for crumbs.  It's disgusting, & they fly!  They're big, much bigger than American cockroaches.  After a week of attempting to use natural deterrents (garlic powder & cucumber slices), we finally acquiesced and bought poisonous traps & houses.  We've killed at least 6 around the trash chutes since we set the traps out 3 days ago.  We've left the carcasses untouched because live cockroaches will each the poisoned ones & die later.  They've given Robby & me the heebie-jeebies, & I've never seen Robby clean with such passion, focus, & stamina.  We even bought a used robot vacuum to clean up after our crumby children.

So, hello Singapore! We'll be here for 6 months.